for me, being single had many seasons. the first was when i became single the summer all of my friends got married. oh carrie you're so dramatic, it wasn't ALL of them. whatever dude, it was all of them. let's call that delightful season
i remember singing the songs about jesus being the only thing i needed. i would try so hard to sing that with my whole heart. i was trying to sing it so that my desire would go away. now i understand those lyrics differently. it's in those desires and in those prayers that are yet to be answered, that jesus is what i need. i'm not sure he was ALL i needed, because there were a lot of great people/things that helped me get through. but i found those things either came from him or pointed me back to him. whatever season you are in should be one that you pour your heart and life into. there will always be something you are waiting for.